How badly do you want to get back your ex? Now before answering your question, I want you to ask yourself whether your ex will think and wonder exactly like you.
Whether or not you know the answer, I still need you to watch out for these signs in your next meeting with him or her.
For these signs will help you to identify easily if your ex really does not want to be with you again and ever.
1. Does Not Want To Listen About The Past
If you are talking about the good times you have had together only to be interrupted by your ex, then chances are he or she wants to forget about you for good.
He or she will interrupt and tell you right in the face not to bring up the past and that he or she has something on and needs to go now. In this case, there is nothing you can do except letting your ex go for good. Because no matter what you say, your ex will not want to listen.
Do not even think about calling. instead just delete his or her number from your phone list.
2. Does Not Want To See You
This is even worse than the first sign.
It could be because your ex does not feel comfortable looking at your face or maintaining eye contact while talking. This is usually the case with women who suggested breaking up.
So if you call her and she declines or keep giving excuses why she does not want to see you, this could be a clear sign that she does not want to see you.
Like it or not, this could be your first and last phone conversation with her. Because if you keep calling her, chances are she will not answer again or may even change her mobile number.
3. Does Not Want To Answer Your Calls
This is another sign.
If you keep calling her, demanding to know why she break up with her and giving her many reasons why she should change her mind, she will not want to answer your calls again.
Even if you do not do this, she also does not want to answer your calls.
Whether it is a guy or gal taking the initiative to break up, the outcome will be the same as he or she have a strong instinct about what his or her partner will do next.
4. Deliberately Introduces Her Current Date To You
Of all 4 signs, this is the one which will break your heart the most whether or not you will react strongly at that moment.
There are 2 likely scenarios here.
A. First Scenario
Your ex agrees to see you but secretly arranges her current date to accompany her as well.
Then upon meeting and while you are talking about the past and why you want her back, she signals to her current date behind your back.
Before you know it, she introduces her current date to you with the obvious intent of wanting you to forget her forever. Even if you get agitated and want to hit out at her date, she will do her best to stop you from being a nuisance to them and everyone around.
B. Second Scenario
This is not as dramatic as the first as it is done through phone rather than meeting.
Your ex will get her current date to answer her mobile and pass the message that he is her new boyfriend and asks you not to disturb her anymore or they will take legal action against you for sexual harassment.
With that being said, here are 4 signs for you to determine if your ex does not want to be with you again and ever.
But your life still has to go on. So do not take it too hard. Focus on finding someone else whether it is through friends or matchmaking agencies.
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